tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post5556902791578879200..comments2024-02-20T14:05:47.498+00:00Comments on Pretty and Polished: Trichotillomania Update: Keeping My LashesSophie Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-9508507819058925262018-01-07T15:37:19.754+00:002018-01-07T15:37:19.754+00:00I found therapy exactly the same. Made even more a...I found therapy exactly the same. Made even more awkward by the fact that no one has heard of it, let alone knows how to treat it!<br /><br />I completely love your outlook towards trich and I really try to adopt a similar mentality. I too will still cover up with make-up (so there's clearly still some element of wanting to hide it somewhere) but will happily tell someone if they ask or bring it up in some way- beforehand I used to totally shut down and deny everything. It's a process but accepting yourself for who you are (and trich being part of that) has helped so much. We don't need eyelashes to be awesome! I'm so glad you've found the blog useful and you're definitely not alone with trich (or weird!) xSophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-78639650275875227342018-01-07T15:33:28.592+00:002018-01-07T15:33:28.592+00:00I'm sorry to hear your trich is bad at the mom...I'm sorry to hear your trich is bad at the moment. We have all been there and it really does suck when you're going through a bad patch. Sending you positive thoughts! xSophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-25061433866307780842018-01-07T15:32:25.764+00:002018-01-07T15:32:25.764+00:00Thank you, and thanks for sharing your story. It&#...Thank you, and thanks for sharing your story. It's so demoralising when you look in the mirror and all you see is the bald patches, but trich is just constant ups and downs. I hope you can grow them back but it's equally important to remember that it's also fine if you don't- you're awesome with or without lashes :)Sophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-62165585861330261232018-01-07T10:48:28.378+00:002018-01-07T10:48:28.378+00:00Your lashes look amazing! So jealous :)
I've h...Your lashes look amazing! So jealous :)<br />I've had trich for something like 15 years, pulling my lashes and brows since I was 12 or 13. I didn't know that it had a name or that there were others like me until a few years ago when my mum told me and offered to pay for therapy - I went once and it was super awkward, so I haven't been since. <br />I used to be really ashamed of it, but now I've made some kind of defiant peace with the fact that that's just how my face looks. A kind of "I refuse to be ashamed!" counterreaction after so many years of trying to hide my face behind my hair. I still never ever leave home without a good thick coat of eye liner, but I'm less afraid of people finding out about it. After all, there are worse things. And my boyfriend bites his nails, so at least he understands the compulsion.<br />I only just discovered your blog today, and it's such a relief to have someone write so openly about the ups and downs that I know so well. For me and my family it's always been something we don't really talk about, so I just wanted to say thank you for putting it into words. It's a great comfort to know that I'm not alone and that I'm not as weird as I always thought :)Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02954138949615555868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-42167433577610562012018-01-05T18:03:51.617+00:002018-01-05T18:03:51.617+00:00I have trich- and I knew that it's called this...I have trich- and I knew that it's called this name, I thought that i'm all alone and i'm the only person with this pulling my lashes, brow and hair condition, now, I have no eyelashes, no eyebrows, and I have to fill them every single morning to go off to college, but seeing that there are many people like me made me a bit strong, thank you for sharing your story, i'm in my worst status right now but hopefully i'll get better soon��Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-47644925165169740612017-12-27T19:43:38.661+00:002017-12-27T19:43:38.661+00:00Ive pulled my eyelashes out for around 9 years and...Ive pulled my eyelashes out for around 9 years and eyebrows for around 4 years. Ive been bald on both eyes more times than i can count then ive had half an eyebrow several times, probably all been gone at different times. I then this year started pulling my lower lashes out which is very frustrating and then the past few months i found myself playing with my hair and pulling a few out. I really need to stop now. Not had a full set of eyelashes now for about 6 years! Its awful when you look in the mirror and there’s nothing there! I dont know anyone else who does it and only just came across lots of people who have it when i searched the hashtag on Twitter! Congrats on your lashes! Hopefully ill get that feeling again soon! Xellietaylorxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00423345870577323999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-32360506939112475182017-12-16T10:16:47.244+00:002017-12-16T10:16:47.244+00:00Ah I'm so sorry that they've all gone now....Ah I'm so sorry that they've all gone now. That's one of the worst parts of trich. Unfortunately I have no specific answer on how to keep them- I think it's sheer luck for me to the moment. I use serum on them every night to help strengthen them (and I think it also helps them grow). I've had a couple of moments where I have pulled but luckily they haven't been too noticeable on my lash line. Sorry I couldn't be much more help. Just think of be feeling when they do grow back! Sophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-39676512181904825982017-12-16T10:11:25.332+00:002017-12-16T10:11:25.332+00:00Thank you!xxThank you!xxSophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-84125886388611408162017-12-14T04:38:29.852+00:002017-12-14T04:38:29.852+00:00I also suffer from trich- and have done so for 15 ...I also suffer from trich- and have done so for 15 years. The last few months I have done so well, very much like yourself. And for once in my life I had no bald spots, with quiet long lashes. However last week I found myself pulling all that hard effort away and am now back to nothing!<br />I am in need of ways of growing them back and keeping them!<br />Please help!<br />Sincerely, your trich- suffering friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-10039661701441274932017-12-03T20:13:08.237+00:002017-12-03T20:13:08.237+00:00Your lashes are looking incredible! Xx Your lashes are looking incredible! Xx Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03964279313424854494noreply@blogger.com