tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post3456831946599256488..comments2024-03-24T06:52:59.653+00:00Comments on Pretty and Polished: Trichotillomania Update (And Why It's OK To Not Be OK)Sophie Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-44332150984966177042017-09-02T11:29:55.286+01:002017-09-02T11:29:55.286+01:00I think that's exactly it. That sounds similar...I think that's exactly it. That sounds similar to mindfulness- I've heard it works well for trich! Sophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-74334662412909182632017-09-01T17:02:18.145+01:002017-09-01T17:02:18.145+01:00I completely understand the feeling. It is such a...I completely understand the feeling. It is such a viscous cycle. I think us trichsters get in our heads too much. When I "get lost" in pulling I try hard to be present. Just look around say where I am at and how I am feeling. If it doesn't stop me completely at least I saved a few hairs. Be graceful with yourself. Much love!! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07049862084679178128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-60204594773105068062016-09-24T21:30:39.070+01:002016-09-24T21:30:39.070+01:00I'm so sorry to hear the first part of your st...I'm so sorry to hear the first part of your story, but so inspired. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment - this has helped me to realise that there is hope for us and that one day we might be 'pull-free'. Well done and stay strong! X Sophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-904026335454185552016-07-23T03:52:45.797+01:002016-07-23T03:52:45.797+01:00Ok, yes, I do understand that this comment is late...Ok, yes, I do understand that this comment is late. This spoke to me so deeply though. When I was around 7-10,I was always very stressed. My parents were divorced, my mom was verbally abusive and my dad was dating this woman who abused me. I had began by pulling my eyelashes out, the feeling of it was just so soothing. After I had pulled out all of my lashes, I had then moved to eyebrows, soon pulling them all out. My parents began to become concerned. They would scream at me whenever I did it, making me do it more. Soon after that, I had moved to my hair, there was soon a bald patch in the middle of my head. I had skillfully learned to part my hair to the side to cover it, (I was around 9 at the time.)<br />Then, one day, I suddenly just stopped. I guess being beautiful was really important to me. I found other things to entertain me, I made sure my hands were always busy with something else, so that I would never get the urge to pull any sort of hair out. I'm now 14, and haven't pulled my hair for about 3 1/2 years! Occasionally I pull one or two eyelashes or hairs out, but nothing that makes a difference. My eyelashes grew back in, long and beautiful, same for my eyebrows. My hair is almost all the same length now, and is quite long!<br />One day, everything will be ok <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-1389859877298989982016-04-15T19:32:33.700+01:002016-04-15T19:32:33.700+01:00Thank you for your comment and I'm so sorry fo...Thank you for your comment and I'm so sorry for the stress your experiencing at the moment... Hope you find your cat, I can't even imagine what you're going through. It's always a horrible moment when you have to examine the trich damage you've caused- I think this part probably creates the worst feelings. <br /><br />As for eyeliners, I love soap and glory's supercat for doing winged liner, or Collection's fast stroke liquid liner for a darker, bolder look. If Kohl is more your thing, MUA do a great one that's fab for smudging into your lash line for a subtle look, think it's only £1 too. I find false lashes are the best option though, and they don't take *too* long to put on! It's easier said than done but there's no need to feel self conscious about trich, most people don't even notice anyway xxSophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-80109845177198379412016-04-15T17:28:14.347+01:002016-04-15T17:28:14.347+01:00I woke up this morning feeling exactly like that! ...I woke up this morning feeling exactly like that! Not many people know I have ttm, but my fiance really and he just says great you pulled your lashes out again! If he's around and sees me he stops me which pulls me out of the trance(I love that word for it BTW!)for a short period of time! I find if I'm tired I have a way harder time stopping myself when I get stressed! I've had insomnia for the last 2 weeks and last night I was upset about money issues and our kitty just went missing yesterday! I fell asleep scared to look in the mirror as I could tell I did a number...and mine had grown back for a month! So I woke up with dread, disgust and shame as I checked out the damage! 😠 I don't go out much and of course I have a bday party to take my son to tomorrow! Sorry for sharing so much but I just found your site this morning and think you are beautiful strong and inspiring! 💜 I'm going to have to get some eyeliner today but with a 2 year old I don't have time for lashes! Any recommendations for good eyeliners that are easy to put on? I'm in the social network marketing biz and it involve a lot of selfies and vids and inspiring others but when this happens I feel so shameful I can't post much because I feel like a liar and so self conscious! I hope to one day be brave like you!<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01559462642924839796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-27251376341171559882016-04-06T20:11:38.204+01:002016-04-06T20:11:38.204+01:00Thank you for your kind words. It's scary to s...Thank you for your kind words. It's scary to start talking about it at first but people are honestly so much more understanding than you would think. There's no need to ever be ashamed of it, no matter what you may tell yourself.Sophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-70176680638346755662016-04-06T18:25:50.317+01:002016-04-06T18:25:50.317+01:00I've never told anyone I have trich, I didn...I've never told anyone I have trich, I didn't even know it had a name til about a year ago. I think you're so inspirational and brave, I wish I could be honest about it but it's being going on too long, haven't been able to grow my brows or lashes back for 10 years. Your blog is wonderful and I wanted you to know you're not alone, you're an inspiration and I really admire you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-14808674113025337622016-04-04T21:32:21.163+01:002016-04-04T21:32:21.163+01:00Thanks Gweni! Just looking forward to when it does...Thanks Gweni! Just looking forward to when it does grow back xxxSophie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14578069737386553963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4713757750176352904.post-69385744556263229222016-03-30T13:32:56.197+01:002016-03-30T13:32:56.197+01:00This brought a tear to my eye - it's exactly m...This brought a tear to my eye - it's exactly me over the past week. Sorry to hear about you having a bad time & hope you feel better soon. Exams & essays etc will be over soon! Also you didn't do a bad thing - it's what feels natural to you. Hair grows back - in it together gal! Gweni xxx Gwenihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05387733318364856235noreply@blogger.com